I’m so eager to write something in my blog tonight. It have been a while I have not updating anything here. Well, life pretty much the same thing again and again...sigh...Not to say that I am not thankful to Allah for what have been fated and given to me, but sometimes it just too hard for me to go through...........Life is always the battle.
Argh.....................i have to let this out!!! Why men is so useless and women always become the victims of their attitude? So men, please answer my question? I am so sad to hear my colleague story. I got to know from her that her husband would like to marry another woman. Although this is sound normal for nowadays marriage, but I can’t understand what time of husband is this? His reason of getting married another one is his current wife (my colleague) is too old for him. When I heard the reason, I am like whattttt???? Bukan ke masa kau nak akad nikah tu ko tahu bakal bini ko umur berape. My colleague was sharing with me that he would like to marry 25 year’s old women. Although masa kawin, yang si suami tahu jarak umur bakal isteri dia adalah 7 tahun lebih tua dari dia and the worst part is, my colleague is carrying his 3rd child in her womb. I am so pity of her. Dengan keadaan diri yang in early stage of pregnancy and husband yang tak pulang ke rumah dek kerana perempuan lain..
My advice to her is for her to keep praying and perform solah istikharah, hajat and tahjud to get HIS guidance...My friend was saying kalau ikutkan rasa hati, she want to just abort the fetus that is growing in her womb. She also said that if possible she don’t want to BIN or BINTI kan the baby with his husband name....Nauzubillah................sekali lagi hati ini meronta menyalahkan kaum adam yang ambil mudah akan tanggungjawab yang mereka pikul. Again...I give my shoulder for her to cry....cry until when you feel released....she said that her husband have not come back more than a week. He is not even call or pick up the phone. He is also not giving any money to the kids and wife. SubhanaAllah......
I hold her hand and give her a hug....I said to her, there must be a good thing of what had happen. Allah will always test us to be stronger and increase our faith to HIM. Accept HIS test and keep praying...................I will pray for your happiness SIS!
